What to Do After Losing a Loved One

Funeral Planning in Sonoma County

Grief can make every decision feel impossible. At Eggen & Lance Funeral Home, we understand what you are going through, and we are here to provide gentle guidance when you need it most. Our goal is to help families in Sonoma County find comfort, direction, and clarity in the days following a loss.

If you need immediate help or would like to speak with our staff, reach out to us anytime at (707) 545-3747.

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Within 24 Hours of a Loss

The first day after losing someone you love can be confusing and emotional. Knowing where to begin can help bring peace of mind.

When a Loss Happens at Home
If your loved one passes away at home, contact emergency personnel or hospice care before calling us. Once the proper authorities are notified, our team will bring your loved one into our care and assist with the necessary arrangements.

When a Loss Happens in a Care Facility
If your loved one passes in a hospital, nursing home, or assisted living community, the staff will handle official notifications. You can ask them to contact Eggen & Lance Funeral Home directly so that we can respond quickly and compassionately.

How We Help During the First 24 Hours
Our staff manages transportation, documentation, and communication with care and respect. If you feel unsure or overwhelmed, call us at any time. We are available day and night to provide support and reassurance.

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After a Couple of Days

Once the immediate arrangements are complete, you can begin planning how to honor your loved one’s life. This time allows families to focus on meaningful choices and moments of remembrance.

Connecting with Family and Friends
Reach out to close relatives and friends personally to share the news and offer comfort. Many families also begin preparing an obituary or memorial announcement during this time.

Gathering Important Information
Collect key details such as your loved one’s full name, date and place of birth, parents’ names, Social Security number, and any veteran documents or preplanned instructions. If you cannot locate everything, our staff will help you gather what is missing.

Making Early Decisions
You may want to start thinking about burial or cremation preferences, the type of ceremony you would like, and where the service will take place. Whether you prefer a traditional funeral, a simple gathering, or a celebration of life, we will help you create a service that feels personal and fitting.

What You Can Expect When We Meet

Meeting with one of our funeral directors gives you time to share your loved one’s story and plan a meaningful service together. We will listen to your wishes, guide you through available options, and take care of each detail so that the process feels simple and supportive.

During this meeting, we can help you prepare and file the death certificate, write and submit the obituary, select a casket, urn, or keepsake, and schedule the service or gathering. We also coordinate transportation, flowers, music, and communication with clergy or officiants.

What to Bring
If possible, bring identification documents, veteran discharge papers, insurance or prearrangement information, and a recent photo or clothing for your loved one. If you do not have everything available, our team will assist you in completing what is needed.

How We Support Families in Sonoma County

At Eggen & Lance Funeral Home, we believe in caring for families through every stage of the funeral process. From your first phone call to the day of the service and beyond, our staff provides compassionate care and clear communication.

Our services include complete funeral, memorial, and cremation planning, assistance with paperwork and permits, and personalized guidance for every detail. We also offer pre-planning options for those who wish to make arrangements in advance.

We are honored to serve families in Santa Rosa, Cloverdale, Healdsburg, Rohnert Park, and throughout Sonoma County. For compassionate support and personal guidance, contact us today or call (707) 545-3747 to speak with a member of our team.

Continuing Care and Local Resources

Healing takes time, and support can make that journey easier. Our staff can connect you with trusted grief counselors, local support groups, and community programs in Sonoma County that provide comfort and understanding.

Whether you prefer quiet reflection, conversation, or connection, we are here to help you find the resources that best fit your needs. Our commitment to your family continues long after the service is complete.

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Frequently Asked Questions

If your loved one passes at home, contact emergency personnel or hospice care, then call Eggen & Lance Funeral Home at (707) 545-3747. We will take care of the next steps.

Most families meet within one to three days after a loss. We are here whenever you feel ready.

Yes. We offer complete burial, cremation, and celebration of life options throughout Sonoma County.

Yes. We will review any prearranged plans and make sure every detail is honored as intended.